For October 5, 2008-This Sunday, we hear one of the all time favorite children’s stories–not just Bible stories, but all stories. In addition to this wonderful story, our church will welcome the scaly, furry and feathered for our annual Blessing of the Animals.
The story of the flood, the ark and Noah has been embraced by artists, movie-makers (Steve Carrell and Morgan Freeman among my favorites) and designers of coffee-cups, nursery linens and just about everything–the sacred and secular alike. What makes this story so interesting? Is it just the cute animals? Is it the curiosity and plausibility of “who cleans out the cages” and “how did they all fit”?
Some respected theologians argue that it is not a story for children. It is just too catastrophic, and children should not be exposed to such a scary expression of God’s wrath.
Is that our view of children? That they should be kept insulated from God? That they are insulated from all other scary things in life, and should not have access to expressions of fear, hope and promise? The sad reality is that all children live in a world that is potentially scary. They don’t cross over at some point to sharing with all other people the fears and wonders of life, but have those from infancy as a mark of our shared humanity.
Bible stories, when presented in wonder, mystery and honesty provide children with valuable access to tools. These tools help children to ascribe their fears to something safe and distant from themselves, play around with it, and then incorporate a new understanding in their own life. I would even go on to say we all access Bible stories this way. Somehow, though, children seem to be naturally insulated and be able to ignore the part they don’t need to hear or deal with at that time. While I would never suggest children should be exposed to something fundamentally inappropriate, I do wonder if children have a healthy sense of selective listening skills. Their “listening ears” can hear what information they can process with their current tool kit or for current problems.
This concept is fundamental to Godly Play. We tell children the hard stories, but in a safe way. The Flood and Ark story is an excellent example of that. Most children when asked “where are you in this story” are very safe and sound on the ark. It is the happy yellow submarine, complete with the most amazing selection of pets.
One of the most memorable responses I got from that question still haunts me. One little boy in our preschool class many years ago was clearly struggling. Whether it was home-life, having the new responsibilities of kindergarten or what was truly troubling him, I was not privy to–for I only saw him for one hour a week in Godly Play. When I asked the group, “where are you” I got the typical responses, until he spoke. “I’m under the water,” he shared. This story was an avenue for him to verbalize a deep fear and a feeling of being overwhelmed. The fear existed before the story, and was expressed after the story.
Somehow, the cuteness of the story is irrelevant.